URLittleDarling Tales

People shrink because they think someone is more powerful, beautiful, talented (ect.) than them. There will always be someone who is more powerful than you — that doesn't negate the fact that you still have power! When you're not using your gifts, talents or seeing yourself as the beautiful person you are, it's obvious that you're too focused on others—when you should be focusing on utilizing what you have. Someone asked me long ago, "how do you do it? Don't you feel conscious when you see ladies prettier than you?" I don't think like that because that's not where my interest is. My interest is in my work, my performance and my presentation—and people will show an interest in me because of such. That goes for everyone. When we feel weaker—or less than others, we give our power over to them even though they didn't ask us to (or know we did). So why would you continue thinking so little of yourself? Whoever said 'second place is the first los...

We are thrown into this life without experience   — we are not given the answers; it is up to us to figure things out. Take grief for example; there is no wrong way to grieve  — for grief in itself is the evidence of your love for another  — whether the loss of the loved one is deceased, or still alive (abandonment/divorce).  I have dealt with loss in both scenarios.  Dealing with the loss of a deceased loved one is hard, but you get closure on the relationship because they died, and it ended.  Dealing with the loss of a loved one due to abandonment is impossible —because you don't get the closure you need. Many children are forced to grow up without a parent; most of which. never knew a parent's love. These children grow up having to figure things out for themselves  — mostly by pissing people off because they are cut, and they bleed on others (so to speak).  Others search for answers; as they do, they get fed a ton of bullshit and/or told that t...

  — The rich have a way of doing things.  To the poor, it often doesn't seem fair. The poor man takes what he can get  — or, what he's worked for.  If he didn't work for it, he knows it doesn't belongs to him.  The rich don't care about that; they are after one thing —and one thing only —MONEY! The rich man has no desire to get entangled with the "what belongs to who"; they are there to evaluate the ROI (return on investment).  The rich don't work for wages; they take risks; they negotiate;  they invest.  The rich knows this system — and it works for them; that is why they "take all they can get"! The poor man cannot make it without rich man & the rich man cannot make without the poor man; they both have an equal need for each other  —  for without the poor (working) man, the rich wouldn't have a business to invest in; and without the rich man, the poor man would be without a job.