Lil' Me?


People shrink because they think someone is more powerful, beautiful, talented (ect.) than them.

There will always be someone who is more powerful than you — that doesn't negate the fact that you still have power!


When you're not using your gifts, talents or seeing yourself as the beautiful person you are, it's obvious that you're too focused on others—when you should be focusing on utilizing what you have.


Someone asked me long ago, "how do you do it? Don't you feel conscious when you see ladies prettier than you?"


I don't think like that because that's not where my interest is. My interest is in my work, my performance and my presentation—and people will show an interest in me because of such.


That goes for everyone.


When we feel weaker—or less than others, we give our power over to them even though they didn't ask us to (or know we did).


So why would you continue thinking so little of yourself?


Whoever said 'second place is the first loser' should be slapped!

Second place proves your willingness to compete with the best—and that makes you pretty amazing!





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